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Favour Onojodofia's avatar

It will be a lot easier if we could just acknowledge that it's not always about us. The heart will find its people though.

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Oríadé's avatar

The heart will.

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Victoria Bamiduro's avatar

Friendship is meeting each other in the middle and respecting everyone's peculiarity.

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Oríadé's avatar

Thanks for reading.🤗

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Boluwatifenishola's avatar

I was immersed as I read this. This is beautiful.

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You Don't Need My Name's avatar

I need this framed. A brilliant piece

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Oríadé's avatar

Aww..😚

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John Amarachukwu's avatar

It might be selfish of me but I still want him to change for me (this might be the after effect of too many romance movies). I’m willing to do the same.

The idea of who we are evolves over time from events and people. I crave that kind of impact on the ones I love.

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Oríadé's avatar

People change actually, sometimes for the people they love. The idea of meeting someone in the middle is not that they won't change, it is that both of you will learn to change and compromise on some things. You both will go through the evolution to accept each other.

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Oladoyin Awoyele's avatar

Thank you, Oriade.

This is beautiful

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Oríadé's avatar

Thanks for reading, Oladoyin. :)

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Msnunupops's avatar

I don't know how this is sooo timely😣

Thank you Oriade for putting a name to a key element of friendship ❤

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Oríadé's avatar

😚

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ARA🦋's avatar

I love love this writing.

Thank you!

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